Fewer children are now drinking. More than half of all children aged 11 to 15 years have never had an alcoholic drink and nine out of 10 do not drink regularly . Remember, it’s healthiest and safest for children to drink nothing before the age of 18 and it’s especially important that they don’t consume alcohol at all before the age of 15 .
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When it comes to alcohol and young people, it can be difficult to sort the myths from the facts. Find out more.
More young people are choosing not to drink alcohol than in years gone by.
Children whose parents don’t mind them drinking are more likely to drink more regularly and a greater quantity of alcohol They can be more likely to drink when you’re not around. And they are more likely to develop alcohol problems later in life.
All the evidence shows it is best to delay a child’s first drink as long as possible. Parents can discuss the issues and dangers associated with drinking and set clear rules. Children are more likely to listen to you than anyone else .
An alcohol free childhood is the healthiest and best option. Alcohol should never be consumed by children under 15 years. But if children aged 15, 16, 17 years choose to drink this should be supervised by a parent/carer and never more than once per week and no more than three units .
It’s best for your child to delay drinking for as long as possible, preferably until they turn 18. Even then, they may not want to drink. More and more young adults are choosing not to drink for a range of reasons – for their health and appearance, for money, career and job prospects.
Some parents say they would never give their child spirits, and there is a myth that fruit-based drinks are less strong. The truth is they all contain the same kind of alcohol. It’s whether they drink at all and how much they drink that counts e.g.:
A standard 25ml shot of vodka = 1 unit of alcohol
440ml fruit cider (4.5% ABV) = 2 shots of vodka
275ml beer (4.8%ABV)= 1.3 shots of vodka
275ml Alcopop (5.5% ABV)= 1.5 shots of vodka
700ml (standard bottle) of spirits (40% ABV) = 28 shots of vodka
This is a widely held view but it is simply not true. France has been reported as having one of the highest alcohol consumption rates in Europe, with alcohol the second-biggest cause for preventable deaths in France after tobacco, killing some 41,000 people each year.
For many people alcohol is seen as a more common and “acceptable” drug and parents might look back on their own teenage experiences. But have you ever thought how your own drinking might encourage your child to ask for alcohol?
The fact is that alcohol misuse is the biggest risk factor for death, ill-health and disability among 15-49 year-olds in the UK.
Children who regularly drink alcohol are more likely to get involved in risk taking behaviour such as smoking and drugs, as well as an increased risk of violence, under age sex and accidents. Alcohol is also a leading cause of poisoning, especially among younger people.
Drinking also creates a higher risk for depression, anxiety, and low self-esteem. Drinking during puberty can also change hormones in the body which can disrupt growth and puberty and it can impact upon a child’s brain development.
While you may feel drinking when young didn’t do you any harm, how can you be sure it won’t harm your child?
We know children who drink under the age of 15 are more likely to have problems with alcohol later in life. We know children who drink are more likely to take risks and could end up smoking, taking other illegal drugs, or having under age sex. We know that children who drink are more likely to suffer from anxiety and depression.
The truth is we all want the best for our children and the best is a childhood free from alcohol.
BUT while it might not be technically illegal to provide your children with alcohol, most aspects of the law are very clear on preventing under 18s from drinking alcohol.
It is illegal to sell alcohol to anyone under 18, or for an adult to buy or attempt to buy alcohol on behalf of someone under 18.
Most alcohol that children consume comes from the home – so providing it to drink in our outside of the home may be undermining important restrictions in local communities to protect children and neighbourhoods.
Do you want to be the parent who introduces alcohol to the peer group?
It’s tempting to think that providing a couple of drinks might take away the curiosity, but if you allow your children to drink, it’s important to think about the message this gives them about giving a green light to alcohol.
And if you do give them alcohol, how much more might they be consuming once they meet up with friends? We know that children who are given alcohol by their parents are more likely to drink outside the home too.
You might think what you say to your child will be viewed as hot air!
But you might be surprised how much your expectations and your boundaries matter to your child.
A survey found that nearly 9/ 10 children aged 11-15 in the North East didn’t drink if their parents asked them not to.